Become an effective leader [Apr 02, 2018] Carnegie, Dale

THE DICHOTOMY OF LEADERSHIP, Jocko and Leif dive even deeper into the unchartered and complex waters of a concept first introduced in Extreme Ownership: finding balance between the opposing forces that pull every leader in different directions. Here, Willink and Babin get granular into the nuances that every successful leader must navigate.

Mastering the Dichotomy of Leadership requires understanding when to lead and when to follow; when to aggressively maneuver and when to pause and let things develop; when to detach and let the team run and when to dive into the details and micromanage. In addition, every leader must:
· Take Extreme Ownership of everything that impacts their mission, yet utilize Decentralize Command by giving ownership to their team.
· Care deeply about their people and their individual success and livelihoods, yet look out for the good of the overall team and above all accomplish the strategic mission.
· Exhibit the most important quality in a leader―humility, but also be willing to speak up and push back against questionable decisions that could hurt the team and the mission.

With examples from the authors’ combat and training experiences in the SEAL teams, and then a demonstration of how each lesson applies to the business world, Willink and Babin clearly explain THE DICHOTOMY OF LEADERSHIP―skills that are mission-critical for any leader and any team to achieve their ultimate goal: VICTORY.

Do you ever wake up, stand in front of the mirror and loathe the man or woman you see?

Do you want to change and transform your life?
Are you feeling that you could be happier, healthier and wealthier?

Are you satisfied with how you feel about yourself?
Do you present yourself with confidence and courage when you have right opportunities?
Are you in total control of your life or happy with how you look and relate with others?
Do you feel that there is something better beside what you have and you want to feel great?

This Motivational and Personal Development Book is a must read if you are to set out on your journey of self-discovery.

” The Power Of Self Image” book will open your eyes to this best kept secret for successful people and companies: One’s success, happiness, health and wealth are equivalent to his or her SELF IMAGE. It will also shift your mindset to the reality: We don’t have a relationship, financial, mental, emotional or spiritual problem; it all boils down to poor self image. And if you don’t believe in you, Bonnie will tell you why: You are NOT too young or too old to change or transform your self image.

Just like the most successful companies succeed because of their Corporate Image, likewise people succeeds because of their Strong Self Image. Between a successful person and a failure their difference lies in their SELF IMAGE. Your FIRST IMPRESSION is the LAST IMPRESSION. No one gives you a second chance when you present yourself. All successful deals, relationships and trust are built by the first impression. Your SELF IMAGE is the only key to success in your life.

The world is full of problems and conflicts. So why can we not solve them? According to Edward de Bono, current thinking cannot solve world problems because current thinking is itself the problem. And this is getting worse: we are so accustomed to readily available information online that we search immediately for the answers rather than thinking about them. Our minds function like trying to drive a car using only one wheel. There’s nothing wrong with that one wheel—conventional thinking—but we could all get a lot further if we used all four. De Bono examines why we think the way we do from a historical perspective and uses some of his famous thinking techniques combined with new ideas to show us how to change the way we think. If we strengthen our ability and raise our thinking level, other areas of our life—both personal and business success—will improve. De Bono is the master of the original big “concept” book and his enticement to us to use our minds as constructively as possible should appeal to a whole new generation of fans.